We all want our homes to look like the perfectly finished spaces we see in magazines, but it’s important they are practical too, especially when you have little kids. The reality is your walls are usually covered in sticky finger smudges rather than delicate wallpaper, and coffee tables are littered with toys rather than art books. You want your kids to feel comfortable in their home, but it doesn’t mean you have to give up on style altogether. You CAN have a beautifully designed home with kids.
Prepare for spills before they happen:
Generally, opt for mid-tone fabrics with lots of texture or patterns so stains and marks aren’t as noticeable. Machine washable is always good, so look for throw cushions with removable covers. Look for durable fabrics with a high rub-test count: 30,000 martingales or higher. You can still have all those lovely fabrics, worry-free, if you get a good fabric protection service first. Getting your sofa treated to seal the fibres and protect it from stains will cost more up front, but it’s so worth it in the long run.
Think about fabric choice:
Velvet can be great because liquid sort-of hovers on top, allowing you to grab a towel and get it off easily. Some, but not all, velvets can really collect pet hair, so choose a tone that’s similar to your pet. You don’t have to be precise about this, but if the thought of a black cat sitting on a white sofa stresses you out, then best try for a colour match.
There’s a reason leather is used for car seats: it is resistant to spills, wipes down easily, and doesn’t take on bad smells. Plus, as leather ages, it develops natural marks that add to its character. Just be aware, when your leather is new, you might be sensitive to every single mark from your pet’s claws. But over time you’ll relax and the leather will take on a lovely soft patina.
Avoid unnecessary injuries:
It’s much easier to clean up a toilet-training spill on hard-surfaces rather than carpet, therefore tiles and timber are very practical choices for living areas. But remember, tiles can be very hard on little heads when kids take a tumble. Timber is a less durable but softer option than tiles.
For coffee tables, round shapes are great for littlies because they don’t have the sharp corners of a rectangle. This reduces bumps and bruises, as well as parental stress, during those living-room wrestles. I also suggest getting a super-sturdy coffee table. Don’t go for glass or something with a thin frame. Give your kids the freedom to sit on it, play games on it, make a fort with it, even dance on it.
Choose forgiving paint:
Kids touch everything, so choose a paint you can wipe down easily. Satin finish on walls doesn’t show as many fingerprints. Dulux Wash & Wear allows you to wipe away most common marks and scuffs with a wet cloth. Kids of all ages like to touch, grab, swing, and climb door frames, so gloss or semi-gloss is the best sheen for internal doors and trims. It can take quite an abuse and stand up to nicks and scrapes better.
Rugs are important:
Kids spend a lot of time on the floor: sitting, playing, crawling, rumbling. Area rugs are great because they create softer spaces, reduce noise, plus they protect your floors. You can use a rug over carpet if you want to protect the carpet too. Patterned rugs hide dirt well. Seagrass rugs too. Layering an oriental or oushak rug on top gives instant chic. When it gets too grungy, get the rug cleaned or just flip it over. Worst case, you can replace it.
Storage is your saviour:
No one with kids ever says they have too much storage! If you can include more storage anywhere, then go for it. I always recommend storage with solid doors. These are much better than glass doors or open shelves because you can put stuff in and simply close the door on your mess. Much easier and practical, especially with kids.
Clutter control:
Kids mean clutter. ‘Toy creep’ is a real thing. To help control toy chaos, provide lots of baskets and bins with lids. Encourage your kids to get into a ‘putting away’ routine. Try and create purposeful storage so that everything has a place of its own. This makes it easier for kids to know where things go and what’s expected.
You can still have nice things:
Kids are sticky, clumsy and awkward, but it doesn’t mean you have to get rid of your precious or delicate accessories. Anything you don’t want to see transformed into a toy really needs to be kept out of reach. You can still have things on display, but keep them up high. As the kids get older, you can gradually move them down. There will come a time when you no longer need to keep them out of the way. Kids don’t stay little for ever, I promise.